I’m so sorry for your loss. Death is such an awful and confusing part of life. I didn’t know Stephen but his brother Joe, we knew him as “Jay”, was with my mother, Linda, for 7 years. I was searching the internet to find Jay and came across this obituary. Again, I’m so so sorry for y’alls loss and I hate to use this site as a way to get a hold of Jay, but I don’t know what else to do. Jay is such a huge part of my childhood. He is the only man I consider as my father. He saved me when I was 6 from an uncle and a “dad” who had been “abusing” me in the worst of ways, since I was born. He was my hero. I’ve been looking for him for such a long time but I just don’t have the money it takes to get the details I need to find where he lives. I just want to talk to him, to hug him and tell him thank u for being the man I needed all those years ago. The last I saw him was right before my 13th birthday after him and my mother had split up. He dropped off an antique Vanity and mirror and I heard him Tell my mother that it was to be given to me when I turned 13. I was standing outside the door listening and hoping he would convince her to come back. But he didn’t. He just turned away and said, “make sure she knows who it’s from and that it gets to HER”, then he was out the screen door and in his truck before I knew it. I remember asking him when I would see him again and he told me that my mother had made her choice. He gave me one last look and I could see the tears well up in his eyes, then he started the truck and drove off, leaving me standing there in the driveway crying and yelling for him to plz don’t go. That was the last I saw him. I still have the vanity be have me all thise years ago. Its my most prized possession and I plan to pass it on to my youngest daughter when she is settled in a home of her own. I am going to be 41 yts old next month and I want him to know that I have 4 kids. All are grown. I feel that he is their grandfather. They know him well and want to meet him desperately. Can anyone help me find him? Plz, understand how important he was and forever will be to a little girl he saved all those years ago. Plz plz help me. My name is Cherry Crowder and my email is cherrycrowder@gmail.com. my phone number is 903-851-1357. Plz leave me a message of I don’t answer. Again I am so so sorry for y’alls loss and thank you so much for taking the time to read this. God bless you always.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Death is such an awful and confusing part of life. I didn’t know Stephen but his brother Joe, we knew him as “Jay”, was with my mother, Linda, for 7 years. I was searching the internet to find Jay and came across this obituary. Again, I’m so so sorry for y’alls loss and I hate to use this site as a way to get a hold of Jay, but I don’t know what else to do. Jay is such a huge part of my childhood. He is the only man I consider as my father. He saved me when I was 6 from an uncle and a “dad” who had been “abusing” me in the worst of ways, since I was born. He was my hero. I’ve been looking for him for such a long time but I just don’t have the money it takes to get the details I need to find where he lives. I just want to talk to him, to hug him and tell him thank u for being the man I needed all those years ago. The last I saw him was right before my 13th birthday after him and my mother had split up. He dropped off an antique Vanity and mirror and I heard him Tell my mother that it was to be given to me when I turned 13. I was standing outside the door listening and hoping he would convince her to come back. But he didn’t. He just turned away and said, “make sure she knows who it’s from and that it gets to HER”, then he was out the screen door and in his truck before I knew it. I remember asking him when I would see him again and he told me that my mother had made her choice. He gave me one last look and I could see the tears well up in his eyes, then he started the truck and drove off, leaving me standing there in the driveway crying and yelling for him to plz don’t go. That was the last I saw him. I still have the vanity be have me all thise years ago. Its my most prized possession and I plan to pass it on to my youngest daughter when she is settled in a home of her own. I am going to be 41 yts old next month and I want him to know that I have 4 kids. All are grown. I feel that he is their grandfather. They know him well and want to meet him desperately. Can anyone help me find him? Plz, understand how important he was and forever will be to a little girl he saved all those years ago. Plz plz help me. My name is Cherry Crowder and my email is cherrycrowder@gmail.com. my phone number is 903-851-1357. Plz leave me a message of I don’t answer. Again I am so so sorry for y’alls loss and thank you so much for taking the time to read this. God bless you always.